The gay community seems to be obsessed with size, the size of the next hunk's biceps, pecs, asscheeks, social media followers, bank account, and, of course, penis. Media, society, and the porn industry have hammered into our heads that a bigger penis means a better penis, but is this really true?
Suppose you're a bottom looking to have a real prostate orgasm. In that case, you might want to keep in mind that your P-Spot is located around 3 inches up your butt, so it's much easier to have a glorious orgasm with a smaller penis than with a massive shaft, so all you Size-Queens out there: What do you really want?
This blog is aimed at all our tops out there who feel they might have a dick that is too small to fulfill their sexual partners, so here go a list of 13 things you need to know about penis size and gay sex with a micropenis.
1) Is your penis small?
Before anyone starts to feel wrong about their size, let's consider what small actually means. If you're gay and have social media accounts, you're constantly exposed to big bulges all around; from amateur and professional pornstars promoting their onlyfans to accounts obsessed with celebrities' bulges, we tend to think that big penises are the norm, but that's not true.
The National Library of Medicine made the best penis size study in 2015. They compiled the data of twenty previous studies on penile length made across the world. The average penis size for 15,500 men turned out to be 3.61 inches (9.14cm) when flaccid and 5.16 inches (13.6cm) when erect. That means that most penises are an inch up or down from those sizes, so if you're under 5.16 inches, you technically have a smaller than average dick; but that doesn't necessarily mean it is a small dick.
2) Will my penis keep growing?
There's a possibility that it will, actually. Still, for most of us who left puberty behind years ago, it's a no-can-do. Our dicks start growing when we hit puberty, and then it is always when we start wanting to hit on other guys, am I right?
Typically, puberty begins between the ages of 10 to 14, according to Irvin H. Hirsch, MD, of Sidney Kimmel Medical College of Thomas Jefferson University. Then is when testosterone starts to work on developing your body, height, and muscle mass. At the same time, your penis and testicles begin to grow to their full adult size and girth. The penis will continue to grow until ages 16 to 21, when the testosterone levels stabilize at last.
So, for most men, the size of their penises is the same from when they were in high school, but if you're 18 and still have hope of your penis getting bigger, wait until you're 21, and then you'll see the final size your dick will have.
3) Why is my penis this size?
Your penis size, just like your height, or your eye color, depends on your genes, and there's nothing to do about it.
One thing to get clear is that there's no evidence of it relating to race or ethnicity. There might be some flattering (and some unflattering) stereotypes out there, making us believe that skin color has something to do with penis sizes.
On the other hand, there's some evidence of the environment affecting penis development, according to a cross-sectional study of 6200 males Aged 0 to 19 years by the Bulgarian Reproductive Research center. Italian researchers also found out that exposure to some chemicals during our development can affect penis growth.
Yes, this is way too scientific, but to summarize, your penis is the size it is because of your heritage and maybe because of your environment, but not because of your race or ethnicity.
4) What is a micropenis?
A Micropenis is a medical condition that is usually discovered in newborn examinations. The term refers to an abnormally small penis and is caused by hormonal or genetic anomalies.
Cases of micropenises are super rare. Only 0.6% of men are born with this condition, so if you think you have a micropenis... you probably don't. An adult with a penis that is less than 3.6 inches (9.1cm) long is considered to have a micropenis.
If you have this condition and want to have a normal and healthy sex life, don't worry, you can, and we're here to tell you how.
5) Can a micropenis be treated?
We have bad news and good news: Sadly, there is no cure for this, but it can be treated. The thing is, it has to be done during infancy or early childhood.
With testosterone treatment, doctors can help the child's penis to respond to the growth hormone. And in case it doesn't work, other hormonal treatments can help.
If you have a micropenis because these treatments didn't work on you as a child or you never had them, there's also the surgery option. We suggest you talk to your doctor about the risks and implications of a phalloplasty. But hey, if it's worth it and you have the money, it's your body, and you decide over it.
6) How's different sex with a small penis?
If you have a relatively small penis, you might be worried about penetrative sex and satisfying your partners. Even those who live with medically diagnosed micropenis can have fulfilling and healthy sex lives.
Sex quality is not determined by the size of your dick. Sex is better when there is communication, trust, affection, and fun! These elements are far more critical for a fulfilling sex encounter than the equipment any of the parts involved have between their legs. Penis-centric sex is never the only option there is; we have hands, mouths, and toys! Come on, it's 2021! It's time to get some ideas out of our heads. As long as you're attentive to what really turns your partner on during foreplay and intercourse, you'll be in the right way.
7) Can you satisfy a man with a micropenis?
If the guy you like has a micropenis and you're worried about making him feel pleasure, fear no more. Penis size has nothing to do with its sensitivity.
Oral sex can be an excellent experience for him. Imagine that he can actually see his whole dick disappearing into your mouth, even if you're not an expert deep-throater.
Also, a big penis might look amazing. Still, it might be a problem if it is about vigorous sex, especially in doggy-style. Going hard will never be a problem with a small dick.
8) Can a guy with a micropenis satisfy you?
In short, yes. Foreplay and oral sex can be his greatest weapons. Also, remember that your prostate is just three inches inside you; deep penetration is not as crucial as porn has made us believe!
9) The best sex positions for men with small penises
Having sex with a small penis is no reason not to use enough lube to be a pleasure for all parts involved. So get that lube bottle and try these sex positions:
Missionary: Yup, a classic, but a classic for an excellent reason. Having the bottom's hip lifted with pillows, and his knees towards his shoulders or his ankles on the top's shoulders allow excellent access and a great connection by being face to face.
Doggy Style: Why do you think these positions are classics? This one also permits excellent access, and it's perfect for beginners too! It also enables great finger play before you go to town.
Remember that communication is vital.
10) Can I have a more enormous dick?
With early detection, doctors can help a baby boy born with a micropenis have a more normal-sized one, but those treatments don't work with adults.
Surgery is an expensive choice for adults looking to have a bigger dick, but it's just for aesthetic matters, and it has its risks.
Luckily there are other options such as penis pumps that can help your dick be as big and hard as it can be. There are even pumps that are specially made for micropenises. And there are also penis sleeves that can cover your dick to give you a larger shaft, and some of them even have vibration functions!
11) What do partners think about micropenises?
Forget about size queens' nonsense! If someone doesn't like you for something as shallow as the size of your dick, he was never worth it.
People looking for a long-term committed relationship will be looking for someone with confidence, charisma, maybe a sweet smile; the size of your dick will not be necessary for the people that really matter.
12) Do condoms work with micropenises?
Practicing safe sex is vital for having a healthy sex life, and several condom brands have products for smaller-sized men. There are even brands that make condoms for men with micropenises, so there's no excuse! Remember, a guy is never "too big" nor "too small" to wear a condom.
13) Could a micropenis be a positive thing?
Of course, it can! It has multiple advantages.
For example, suppose you're dating a guy with a more petite dick or a micropenis. In that case, you can be sure he'll know how to give excellent oral or how to use his fingers to make your brain explode in pleasure.
On the other hand, if you have a micropenis, you can be even more adventurous with sex than if you have a big anaconda between your legs. You can try more positions and go harder without risking provoking an anal injury on your partner. You can even play with toys while penetrating him!
If you have a small cock, the best advice we can give you is to get it out of your mind. Sexual charisma and confidence are more important than genetics.
Think that if you're reading this, it is because you want to step up your game, and that's an advantage you have over large-donged men out there. They would never do such a thing because they think the only thing they need is to put their bit in and never improve their technique.
Maybe it's a clishé, but it doesn't make it less accurate: it's not about size; it's about how you use it.
