Men Can Be Multiorgasmic: Cum Twice in One Night!

Picture this: 

• You're finally in bed with the guy of your dreams.
• Things are so hot that sparks are flying while you kiss.
• You take off your clothes, tearing up a few buttons of your shirt.
• You have wild sex.
• You cum.
• The night's over.

Doesn't it feel ironically a little anticlimactic? For many men, once they cum, sexy fun is over for the night. So it doesn't matter if you're with the sexiest man alive; you feel like your body is not ready for another round, no matter how much you want it. 

If this sounds familiar to you, it's completely normal, and you're not alone in there. But if you want to change that situation and be able to cum more than once in a night or make your man cum twice, here we'll give you a little guide so you can unlock this feature in your body.

Cumming VS Ejaculating

First thing first: orgasm and ejaculation are two different concepts, so let's discuss the difference first to get into our guide. According to The National Center of Biotechnology Information:

• Orgasm is an intense transient peak of intense pleasure.
• Ejaculation is a complex physiological process that consists of the creation and expulsion of sperm.

Studies have shown that these are two different things that can be interrelated but don't necessarily mean the same thing. When a man has an orgasm, he will generally ejaculate; the easiest way for a man to get an orgasm is by stimulating his penis, which is also how you get to ejaculate. However, you know jerking off is not the only way to get an orgasm. Right?

Is it hard to cum multiple times?

You know that feeling of when you just came, and you feel like your body is twice as heavy, and a good sleep feels so tempting? This is called the "refractory period," and it's when your body is resting after a significant release of sexual energy. 

Most guys (yeah, most of them) can't think of the second round of hot sex because they feel exhausted after the first one. That's why having multiple orgasms feels like an achievement too hard to even think about. But in reality, they're not, and you won't necessarily get the refractory period multiplied by the times you came.

Cumming multiple times is easier than you think, but it takes some work from you. Only 1 out of 10 men aged 20-30 can naturally come several times at once. These numbers are even lower for men over 30 years old. So if you think this is about youthful energy, you're wrong. Being able to reach multiple orgasms is natural for around 7% of men, but all of us can do it if we put our minds (and bodies) to it.

Do you want to know how?

Three things you can do to cum twice

Alright, this is what you came for (pun intended). You can do a few things if you (or your partner) want to come multiple times in a row without stress:

1) Suck that dick!

A blowjob is probably the easiest way to reach the climax twice in a row. Receiving a blowjob implies you're relaxing, enjoying the ride, and doing no other physical activity than being in a comfortable position while your man is eating that dick of yours. 

Cumming after a blowjob means the sexual energy released during orgasm is the only thing your body needs to recover from. The refractory period will be shorter, or maybe you won't need a refractory period. You'll be ready for a second round right away.

Having your man sucking your dick until you cum for the first round and then fucking his ass for the second round is a great idea for multiple reasons. You'll be receiving tons of pleasure and last longer during the second act; you'll cum twice as your body is not as strained from the first round.

You can take turns and suck each other's dicks, or you can try a 69 and synchronize cumming on each other's faces or throats at the same time. This way, the experience can be even more pleasurable for both of you as you cum for a second time through penetrative sex.

A blowjob is not just foreplay; if you can reach an orgasm through it, then it is sex too. You can even boost your blowjob experience using sex toys such as the Fleshlight Pink Mouth Wonder Wave so you can blow his dick with a fleshlight while you kiss him or lick his nipples. You can also use a bullet vibrator to stimulate his balls or perineum while you deepthroat him.

Sucking dick is fun, and getting your dick sucked while you lay down and relax is even better, so it's a win-win all the time!

2) Use the backdoor

Blowjobs can be the easiest way to cum twice in a row. Still, the best way to achieving multiple powerful orgasms is by stimulating your G-Spot: AKA your prostate.

If you're not familiar with this magical gland, let us tell you about it. It is located around two inches inside your ass, and it's the size of a walnut. Scientists argue that the prostate's orgasms are way more intense than penile orgasms, so you better start paying attention to this little friend inside your body.

To stimulate your prostate, you can use a finger or a sex toy. There are multiple techniques and toys such as prostate massagers to help this bad boy make your body explode in pleasure with the best orgasms you've ever had.  

The best thing about prostate orgasms is that you can have one right after the other. There's no need for penile stimulation; you might not even ejaculate, so your dick will be free and ready for sex right after you came. Besides, the intensity of a prostate orgasm can make you feel horny right away.

If you're one of those tops that are scared of playing with your ass: Get out of your head and be free to explore and enjoy your own body!

3) Exercise is your best friend

Suppose exhaustion after cumming is the main reason for not being able to reach a second orgasm. In that case, the obvious (or maybe not so obvious) thing to improve is your stamina with healthy exercise.

In sex, stamina means how long you can last until you cum. Most men have low stamina, meaning they can have sex for two to five minutes and ejaculate right away. Having low stamina is not bad; it is not even weird. However, not controlling your orgasms or ejaculations can get into your head and affect your performance in sex and your self-esteem.

If you want to cum twice, then you need to work on improving your sex stamina. The best way to do this is by getting physical, especially working out your pelvic floor with Kegel exercises. Having a strong pelvic floor can help you delaying your orgasms and enjoying sex even more.

Improving your stamina is vital for achieving multiple orgasms in a row, but it's not only about that. It's about controlling it and how much you can last doing physical activities during a determined period.

Try to live a healthy life. Make friends with cardio or any other workout you like (lift weighting, yoga, calisthenic), whatever gives you endurance and energy. Also, have a balanced diet and sleep 8 hours a night; this will not only improve your sex stamina but will make your whole life better.

Are you ready for multiple orgasms in a row?

Yes, cumming twice in a row can look overwhelming, especially if cumming once leaves you on the floor on a regular sex encounter. Still, if you're willing to try these things out, you're already on the way to achieving your multiorgasmic goal. 

If you or your partner find it hard to cum twice, don't feel bad about it, you're not alone on this road. What matters the most is that you enjoy the ride, relax and experiment in bed until you find what works best for you.

Try these suggestions and see what feels better. You don't need to do them all three at once, do it one by one to experience them alone. Of course, you can mix them altogether if you feel like it will give you better results.

Our most excellent advice is that you follow number three as it will give you a much better quality of life and results in the long term. Exercising and eating healthy will help you feel more energized and in control of your own body.

Also, don't forget to have fun and experiment in bed. Use toys to enhance your sex experiences and help you expand your horizons (mental and physical). Talk with your partners about what you're feeling and what you want to try, but also experiment by yourself, so you don't feel any external pressure.