10 Tips for Gay Sex In A Car

Who didn’t see the movie Titanic and remember that car sex scene? Honey, it’s time to get your inner Leo and Kate on and get you some screwing in an automobile! Here are 10 tips for gay sex in a car.

1. Park in a discrete spot. 

No one needs to be arrested and slapped with a sex offender label for public nudity and sexual intercourse. Nobody needs a criminal record when they were just simply trying to get their rocks off. So, if you are going to be getting it on in your car, take it to an area that you know is hidden from the naked eye and inaccessible to the police. Some park, a parking structure roof, or a gated parking garage are decent recommendations for you to take your car sex to a place that you won’t immediately get caught in. 

Park the vehicle in a dark, quiet area where you can see anyone coming from all directions to avoid being detected and reported. Whatever you do, don’t ever get discovered having sex in the car. 

2. Try and hide your act. 

If you’ve got tinted back windows, take the fornicating to the back seat. Put up a towel or jacket over the windows. Basically, hooking up in your car isn’t a legal act virtually anywhere, so you need to find a way to hide that you are screwing. You are breaking the law, so cover that shit up with some hiding materials and tactics. Window blinds, windshield covers, hiding under the covers, and doing what you can to keep people seeing what it is that you are doing are highly recommended. Don't make it obvious that you are fucking in your car and do whatever you can to hide the fact from the rest of the world. 

Don’t get caught by concealing any way strangers or people walking by can see what you are doing within your car. Keep it to yourself and hide your car sex.

3. Car sex should be a quickie. 

It’s not like you are ever completely comfortable fucking in a space the size of a small closet. Typically a last option, don’t take too long going at it, for fear you might draw attention to your sex act and get caught. The sooner you both are in and out and cum, the less likely you are to be exposed for getting it on in the car. 

The epitome of the best quickie, use your car as a fast space to hookup and get the deed done before anyone even notices that you were gone. Use sex in the car as the final option when no other location for fornicating is possible or available to you. Don’t take forever. 

Get in, get out, hit it and quit it, and make it count! Car sex should be a 20 minute rendezvous or less.

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4. Get off that gear switch, honey.

Move from the front seat to the back seat and back again. Your car is not the easiest place to have sex in. Keep it moving and switch positions until you can find one that feels great for both of you. 

You guys might need to switch it up and put some limbs in odd directions and positions, but you can eventually find one that really sticks for you. It’s a small space, whether you own a sport utility vehicle or a Mini Cooper, so you’ve got to utilize the space you have and make it work. 

While I am unsure whether or not there is a car Kama sutra, you’ll find by switching up the sex positions that you’re able to get off quicker from different angles and moves. It may seem like missionary and doggie style are the only ways you can screw in a car. But if you get creative, you can bend yourselves into a bunch of fun different positions like gym it’s car sex contortionists.

5. Make the situation as comfortable as possible. 

You’ve got clothes you can use for padding and filling nooks and crannies with that might otherwise be sharp and or uncomfortable angles of pits. Seat belts protruding can be especially deadly and painful. Create as much space and room for yourselves as you can. Lay the back seats down flat or open them up to the trunk: whichever option is more comfortable and creates more space to have car sex. Push the front seats all the way forward and lay them down as flat as they go. 

Or cock them in the 2 o’clock position to help hide your fornication. You’re going to have a lot better car sex experience if you utilize as much of the car as possible. Our advice is to take it to the backseat and go from there.

6. Listen to your partner and pay attention to what is helping get him off and not. 

Sure, this is sound advice in or out of a vehicle, but it is an essential word of wisdom for car sex, specifically. A position for you mightn’t next comfortable for him. There are the aforementioned items in the way like seat belts, gear shifts, steering wheels, peddles, gaps, and turn signals. Check in occasionally with your man to make sure he isn't being poked by something other than your penis. You both have an equal responsibility for paying attention to your surroundings and making sure your sex fest is not discovered by anyone. 

Pay attention to the opinions and wants of your guy in regard to car sex.

7. Bring the lube. 

Oral sex is great and can help lube things up a bit. But you don’t have all night to go down on one another and rim each other until the cows come home. Car sex is dirty, sexy, and quick! You’ll need some lube so the bottom of the two of you doesn’t rip or tear anything down there in the haste of getting off quickly. Try some Swiss Navy Water Based Lube. Great for condom use (don’t forget the rubbers! And take your PrEP!) because it’s water-based, Swiss Navy has great sizes for on-the-go fucking, and produces one of the most popular lubricants on the market. 

Penetrate that booty with ease and a little bit of lube next time you take your action to the confines of a vehicle.

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8. Try and set the mood. 

Which is not easy in a car when you’re trying to have a quickie. Just use your head and think of a few things before you guys get too hot and heavy. Speaking of temperatures rising: crack open the windows for the air or set the air conditioning on so you’ve got a bit of air circulation. Put on some good sex music, whatever you and your partner’s intercourse music preference may be. 

But not too loud, as you don’t want to draw unwanted attention to yourselves and your windows are already going to be open a slut without the AC just blasting. Adjust the rear view mirrors and visor mirrors to give you both a good reflective show of your sex. Watch yourselves get it on. Have a drink from the wine or cocktails you packed. And make out under the stars.

Before you get ready to rumble, dish out what you guys are looking to do in your vehicle. Hook up with the goal of fucking? Or is only oral more likely on the table? Is penetration mandatory? Also, is cumming? Is an orgasm an absolute must? 

9. Discuss between the two of you what each one’s expectations are for fucking in the car. 

This doesn’t have to be and shouldn’t be a long, drawn-out, knock down conversation. It should be a quick 20 second question and answer series that will guide you for the rest of the car sex. 

This is also gaining consent from your partner, which is always good, and allows him to tell you what he is interested in doing and what he isn’t. It will be easier to have a good time with a clear solid open line of communication and expressed expectations out in the open.

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10. Prepare as much as you can before you go to hook up in a car. 

That’s easier said than done, as I’m assuming car sex is most often spur of the moment and random. But if you can do anything to help yourself ready for car sex, you’ll be better off. Easily removable items of clothing is a solid bit of advice. Packing a blanket for warmth, cover, and concealing. Pack drinks. Window screen covers hide a lot. Pillows always come in handy, whether it for cushioning or propping up a body part. Pack and lube. Bring water. Think of a good place to park the car. 

Talk it over with your boo thing. And do whatever you can do to make the sex in the car adventure one for the books! You’ll be glad that you did.

Check out this public gay sex article for more tips: Going Out To Play: A Guide To Great Public Sex & Cruising.