Bucket List of Gay Sex: 50 Ideas to Try in 2020

So, 2020 is a bit of a bummer, from a WW3 scare, a never-ending pandemic, and killer fucking bees, it’s no secret that it’s basically a write-off. Though, being stuck at home has its advantages and even more if you’re quarantining with your boo. Now is the perfect time to improve your sex life or add to it. There are almost endless things you can add to your sex life, whether you’re single or not.

I’m going to go over a ton of suggestions that you can add to your bucket list of gay sex. You don’t have to try all of them or any of them for that matter, heck you might already do some of these on the regular. I’m here to help kick start your list with a lot of things you can experiment with.

1. Explore BDSM, find a kink
   My go-to is bondage, it’s a lot of fun and isn’t too far out of the comfort zone for most gays. There’s a lot of thrill that comes from tying up your man with the exclusive purpose of control. It’s really fucking hot, quite frankly. The added bonus is you get to fuck him however you want, or if you’re tied up, you can’t resist whichever way he wants to fuck you.
2. Use erotic CBD products
   These products are all over the market. You can find desensitizing gel, erotic massage lube/oil, and so many other products. 
3. Make a strip version of your favorite game
   Whether it’s Call of Duty or classic poker, almost anything can be turned into a strip game. It can be nice just to be silly, and it gets a bit distracting before long!
4. Try to have a touch only orgasm
   Trust me, they exist. It’s really intense to cum just from touch and pleasure from everywhere but your cock or hole. 
5. Literally rip off his clothes
   Definitely do this in clothes you don’t really care about or are easily replaced. But it’ll be worth the ripped shirt, kicking off sex in this more animalistic way can be a huge turn on.
6. Give temperature play a shot
   An ice cube blowjob or simply rubbing an ice cube on your sensitive areas can really drive you wild. Have him blow on the areas after for a boost in pleasure.
7. Experiment with wax
   There are special candles for wax play, don’t just pick one up at the corner store. The warm sensation and sudden drips can happen anywhere you want, it’s obvious that this can get really erotic, really quickly.
8. Give him a facial
   Like, with your load, obviously. Cum on his face and use your cock to push the load into his mouth. You can lick your load up and spit it in his mouth too, really anything’s possible!
9. Get him to cum on your face
   It’s a hot thing for both of you, fair is fair!
10. Work out naked
    Pump up your muscles while working out naked together. Watching sweat drip off his body is really hot, so prepare to fuck in your home gym or wherever you can get a naked workout in.
    
    
11. Try edging
    You can get really intense orgasms this way. Get yourselves, or each other, up to orgasm, but stop until the intensity subsides. Repeat this until you can’t hold back, bonus points for turning it into a competition!
12. Lick him clean
    Every-fucking-where. Seriously, take all of him in your mouth, front and back! From his head to his toes, you’ll find lots of spots to explore for later.
13. Edge each other all week
    Build him up close to climax but leave him hanging every day for a week. You’ll have an explosive memory to add to your spank bank!
14. Buy some nipple clamps or suckers
    These usually come with a way to adjust the intensity, so you can experiment with what turns you on best.
15. Order a new kind of sex toy that neither of you has used
    My tip here is to shop online, sure going in-store means instant gratification, but online you can endlessly compare prices and really find your fit. Plus, when your package arrives, it can spark up some spontaneous intimacy with your new plaything!
16. Try tingling lube
    Warming lubes give a really unique sensation. Bottoms and tops can both enjoy these, just start slow - no one wants a burning dick or hole!
17. Try a prolonging product
    Premature ejaculation never means the end of sex but lasting longer isn’t a bad thing! Give him hell for hours with a prolonging lube or gel.
18. Buy an adult game
    There are a ton of sex games out there, they can make for really great foreplay!
19. Try a sex toy away from your partner, then tell him every detail of the experience
    This is probably gonna lead to a little further, too!
    
    
20. Have your man try toys and then tell you about his experience
    Maybe have them show you everything they did, but this time to you.
21. Try a remote-controlled vibrating butt plug out in public.
    It’s your naughty secret at the dinner table! Even running errands, this can keep the mood up for hours.
22. Role-play with your man
    Maybe you find his Thor costume from last Hallowe’en really hot, get him to wear it, and go from there.
23. Have your partner try being dominant with you
    Who knows, maybe you like being submissive.
24. Try being the dom
    I mean, this is a bucket list, ya gotta try both sides!
25. Slow way down for sensual, tantric sex
    Draw out each and every sensation and savor every second of it.
26. Fuck as fast as you can
    A quickie can be a great mood booster for your whole day, and it won’t even take much time… That’s kind of the point!
27. If you or he exclusively top, try some anal training
    You can try fingering and working your way up with toys and other fun things.
28. Give rimming all your attention
    Nows the perfect time to get sparklingly clean and rim each other for hours. When you get a sore jaw swap out.
29. Try to have completely silent sex
    You can even attempt to break each other by introducing toys, they can make noise, but you absolutely cannot.
    
    
30. Set a record duration
    The longer you last the more intense your orgasms will be.
31. Having loud, rough sex
    Wake the neighbors, scare the birds, let your freak flag fly! It can get a little ridiculous, but it adds a certain something when you get those looks from the neighbors later.
32. Get into dirty talk
    Break out the classic like, “Hey, big boy,” and get really descriptive about your desires. Don’t forget to act out everything you say!
33. Have really intimate sex
    Gaze deep into each other’s eyes and really feel the experience together. Chances are you’ll cum in unison.
34. Sext yo man while he’s at work or making to quarantine grocery trip
    It’s a great way to tease him, plus if he comes barging through the door you know you’re in for fun!
35. Get your man to send you nudes
    Something I’ve recently been doing is boomeranging to up the ante! Play with your precum or show off your other assets, just get more creative than being on the toilet.
36. Send him nudes back
    Maybe you can get into extra naughty trouble sending him a quick shot of his favorite body part when he thinks you’re busy.
37. Read each other raunchy erotica
    There are endless fanfics out there now, so whatever you love has been turned into something far more sexual than its creators intended, but it’s to your benefit! Find something the works for you both and take turns reading.
38. Make a sex playlist of Spotify together
    It can be public which adds a fun twist, but best of all you can make a mix of however you like it. Fast, slow, and anything in between.
39. Go on a sex-cation
    Plan a trip where you’ll exclusively fuck instead of mundane tourist activities. Spend your time inside getting frisky! No one there really knows you so maybe try something riskier.
    
    
40. Have some classic car sex
    Get him to pick you up in a rental with extra room, just to fuck. It’s hot AF, you can have sex practically anywhere.
41. Buy some boujee lube
    Spend time looking for lube online, and buy one that suits you two. Spending more on lube might make the experience that much more fun and wilder!
42. Have exclusively oral sex for a week
    I’m not saying you can’t rim him, but only do oral activities and get each other off for a week this way. Don’t be afraid to put his balls in your mouth either!
43. Go to a sex or passion party
    You don’t have to do or buy anything. But seeing other people getting it on might turn you two on for later.
44. Find a local sex workshop
    Take a class together because realistically the worst thing that could happen is you talk about sex for hours. More like, you’ll both learn a new move or two!
45. Have some shower sex
    Cleaner sex is definitely not worse. Just keep an eye on the lube! It can get slippery in there.
46. Have sex in the pool or ocean, whatever water you can be private at
    Plenty of hotels offer in-suite pools, but since that’s a little sketch right now, this could be a great one to try out immediately after lockdown!
47. Blindfold one of you during sex
    Giver or receiver doesn’t matter, being deprived of your sense is super-hot. Each touch is that much more intense.
48. Try phone sex
    Even if you’re living together you can just go to different rooms and have a dirty call with each other.
49. Have sex, not in a bed
    The parks are quieter these days, maybe get a little riskier! Or fuck in the kitchen, IDGAF.
50. Try to have multiple orgasms
    Seriously, fucking a hole that’s already full of cum is pretty hot. If you can keep loading him, then why not! You’ve got all the time you need to keep going.

There you have it! 50 sexy things you can try with each other. It’s best if you’re quarantining together, but you can definitely save some for later!