The butt plug guide

10 butt plugs worth your time

From your very first plug to the one you wear all night: how to choose, how to use one, and the ten we'd buy again.

Updated September 20264 min read By Adam's Toy Box

Why a plug

A butt plug is built to stay put. A tapered tip goes in easily, a wider bulb gives you that full feeling, a narrow neck lets your muscles close around it, and a flared base stops it going too far.

Wear one on your own, during sex, or as a warm-up before something bigger. It presses where it counts and makes everything else feel louder.

How to choose

  • Size. Look at the widest diameter, not the length. Around 1 to 1.25 in (2.5 to 3 cm) is a good first plug.
  • Material. Silicone is body-safe, soft and easy to clean. Glass and steel are firm and smooth. PVC and jelly cost less but are porous, so put a condom on them.
  • Base. Always a flared base or a T-bar. Anything without one doesn't go in your ass.
  • Extras. Weighted for a heavy, full feeling. Vibrating for prostate play. Hollow (tunnel) plugs for a stretched feel.

How to use one

  1. Get ready

    Go to the bathroom first, trim your nails and relax. A warm shower helps. Keep lube and a towel within reach.

  2. Lube both

    Coat the plug and yourself generously. Use water-based lube with silicone plugs.

  3. Go slow

    Press the tip in gently and breathe out as you push. Let your body open at its own pace. If it stings, stop, add lube and try again. Once the widest part is in, your muscles close around the neck and it holds itself.

  4. Take it out gently

    Relax, breathe out and ease it out by the base. Wash it with warm water and soap or a toy cleaner, and let it dry.

From first plug to all-nighter

Our 10 picks

  1. 01Best first plug

    Anal Fantasy Collection 100% Silicone Small Butt Plug With FREE 5 Piece Prep Kit

    £20.00

    Small, soft silicone with a tapered tip and a flared base, and a prep kit in the box. The easiest place to start.

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  2. 02Best trainer set

    Colt Anal Trainer Kit

    £20.00

    Three tapered plugs in rising sizes. Start with the smallest and move up when you're ready.

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  3. 03Best glass plug

    Glas 4" Male Butt Plug

    £17.00

    Gentle ripples that grow a little with each one, in smooth glass. Run it under warm water first, or cool it down for a sharper feel.

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  4. 04Best weighted plug

    B-Vibe Snug Butt Plug 1

    £31.00

    A weighted core gives you a heavy, full feeling with every move, and the slim neck keeps it comfortable to wear for longer. Silicone.

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  5. 05Best on a budget

    TitanMen The Rumpy

    £19.00

    A firm, flexible plug with a head shaped like the real thing. Phthalate-free PVC, so wear a condom on it for easy cleaning.

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  6. 06Best hollow plug

    Perfect Fit Large Tunnel Plug

    From £27.00

    An open core keeps you stretched while you wear it, and lets you add lube right through the middle. For the experienced.

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  7. 07Best jewel plugs

    Blush Luxe Bling Plugs with Gems

    £33.00

    A set in rising sizes, each with a gem at the base. Training, with a little shine.

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  8. 08Best first vibrating plug

    VeDO Bump Rechargeable Anal Vibe

    £39.00

    A beginner-friendly tapered tip, 10 vibration modes and a T-bar base. Rechargeable and waterproof.

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  9. 09Plug and cock ring in one

    b-Vibe Snug & Tug Weighted Silicone & Penis Ring

    £43.00

    A weighted plug joined to a cock ring, with a bump for your perineum in between. Every stroke tugs on both.

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  10. Pick a product

Plug questions

How long can I wear a butt plug?

Start with 15 to 20 minutes. With a body-safe plug and plenty of lube, a lot of guys wear one for a couple of hours. Take it out if anything hurts or goes numb, and add lube when it starts to drag.

Does it hurt?

It shouldn't. Pressure and a feeling of fullness are normal. Sharp pain means slow down, add lube or go smaller.

Do I need to douche first?

Not necessarily. Going to the bathroom beforehand is usually enough for a plug. If you like to douche, keep it gentle with plain lukewarm water.

Can I sleep with a plug in?

We don't recommend it. You won't notice discomfort while you're asleep, so take it out before bed.

Which lube goes with which plug?

Water-based for silicone plugs. Water-based or silicone lube for glass and steel. Read why Vaseline isn't one of them.

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