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20 Best Sex Toys For Gay, Bi, Queer Guys

20 Best Sex Toys For Gay, Bi, Queer Guys

The world is opening up for sex toys, and each day it becomes more usual for all kinds of men to use toys for their regular sex practices (alone or with someone).

But we have to admit that gay culture is a thing, and it includes gay sex. Sex toys are designed to give pleasure to a certain kind of genitals, no matter the sexual orientation of the owner. Still, certain toys are made explicitly for gay, bi, and queer men.

sex toys ideal for gay, bi, and queer men

For example, fleshlights that are modeled after a particular porn star; straight men (and bi men) might be inclined to buy one shaped like a female porn star's vulva. In contrast, for gay (and bi) men, there are fleshlights shaped like our favorite male porn star's assholes.

Yeah, that example might be pretty obvious. Still, other toys have functions that gay, bi, and queer men might be interested in, while straight dudes won't: stretching up your butthole or help two bottoms have sex with the help of no top.

We have a list of 20 sex toys ideal for gay, bi, and queer men. Some might be for more advanced practices, but all of them are super pleasurable for anyone with a penis, asshole, and/or prostate. They can be used with a partner or alone!

 Malesation Nickel Free Stainless Steel Cock Rings - 3 Sizes

1) Malesation Nickel Free Stainless Steel Cock Rings - 3 Sizes

Let's start with the cock ring: a staple in every queer man's bedroom.

If you're not familiar with cock rings, let us tell you that these tools are made to make your erections last longer, and to improve your sexual stamina, so you can pound your man's ass hard and fast.

 Nexus Ace Remote Control Butt Plug Small

2) Nexus Ace Remote Control Butt Plug Small

This butt plug is perfect for beginners because of its small size. More experienced men can also enjoy its vibration function. It is entirely waterproof and includes a remote controller you can give your partner to make him in charge of your pleasure.

It has a rechargeable battery that will give you 80 minutes of glorious fun.

 Colt Anal Trainer Kit

3) Colt Anal Trainer Kit

Use this trainer kit to get your ass ready for that dick! This kit includes three butt plugs of different sizes, so you can start small and move progressively towards the bigger one until you're ready to ride that dick like a pro!

This toy is the perfect warm-up for anal sex, but you can also use it while you're boning a guy! (The perks of being vers)

 Fleshjack Boys Trenton Ducati

4) Fleshjack Boys Trenton Ducati

Don't conform with jerking off to the hottest pornstars when you can know how it feels to actually fuck them in the ass. Fleshjack has all sorts of toys based on your favorite pornstars, and this one based on Trenton Ducati's bumhole will make you cum fast! 

This fleshlight also has a delicious texture that will make your dick feel like crossing the gates of gay haven.



This prostate massager features a state-of-the-art design, made for pleasuring your prostate from inside and out at the same time, and isn't it just beautiful? This fabulous toy is a powerful tool that will make you see rainbow-colored stars as you cum hands-free!

You can also use it while topping a guy, so you get extra pleasure from all sides!

 NS Novelties Renegade Bondage Wrist Cuffs

6) NS Novelties Renegade Bondage Wrist Cuffs

You got a kinky date with a guy, but you only have 30 minutes to restrain him and bang him? Not a problem with these bondage wrist cuffs from Renegade. They are made of comfortable skin material but are super secure, so he won't escape. 

They fasten with velcro, so they are super easy to open, close, and adjust, so those 30 minutes can be spent just in kinky fun!

 Easy Toys Faux Leather Handcuffs

7) Easy Toys Faux Leather Handcuffs

Now, if you have more time to play and some more cash in your pocket, you can get these handcuffs like the Daddy-Version of the previous ones. 

These sturdy handcuffs have clip fasteners you can use to combine with other bondage restraints, and they are made of faux leather to make them easier to clean but still look bold as fuck.

 B Vibe - Vibrating Remote Control Rimming Butt Plug

8) B Vibe - Vibrating Remote Control Rimming Butt Plug

Do you like your ass eaten? Do you enjoy the feeling of using a butt plug? What if I told you there's a butt plug that can make you feel like you're getting a rim job? This is not a product of your deepest fantasies; it is an actual toy you can get.

Its rotating beads and powerful tip vibration will give you sensations that make your eyes water in pleasure.

 Fun Factory Duke Prostate Massager

9) Fun Factory Duke Prostate Massager

This little buddy might look kinda weird, but it's made to perfectly fit the anatomic shape of your rectum to give a fantastic massage to your prostate. At the same time, it also stimulates it from your perineum on the outside.

This guy will give you amazing orgasms that will leave you hearing the climax of "Halo" by Queen B.

 Glas Blue Spiral Glass Dildo

10) Glas Blue Spiral Glass Dildo

This glass-made toy with a dazzling blue spiral on its shaft is so beautiful you'll want to place it on your living room table as home decor. But it's not just about how it looks; it gets better when you actually use it and feel its incredible texture.

Besides, you have nothing to worry about while using it, for it's fracture-resistant, so it won't shatter inside of you. If you use it well, it will last a lifetime.

 Malesation Inflatable Butt Plug Large

11) Malesation Inflatable Butt Plug Large

If what you really really want is to feel full, this silicone-made toy is just what you need. You can stuff it in and fill your butt; It's perfect to use it alone or with someone, thanks to its suction cup base leaving your hands free to do other things.

Remember to use water-based lube with this toy!

 Anal Fantasy First Time Fun Anal Beads With Free Prep Kit

12) Anal Fantasy First Time Fun Anal Beads With Free Prep Kit

Anal beads are great for beginners! This toy comprises a flexible shaft and a series of beads that gradually increase in size from the last. It's perfect for getting familiar with the sensation of having something inserted up your butt.

You can wear these bad boys all day long and have your partner slowly take them out as you climax.

 b-Vibe Remote Triplet Anal Beads

13) b-Vibe Remote Triplet Anal Beads

If you're already familiar with anal beads, you should try this version with vibration functions. This one is the king of anal beads: it's comfortable, makes you feel full, it's easy to clean, and its dual internal motors will take you to infinity and beyond.

It includes a remote controller, so you can also use it for playing along with your man.

 Mojo Ghia Vibrating Male Harness

14) Mojo Ghia Vibrating Male Harness

This tool is perfect for gay trans men who want to top and for anyone with a penis. This harness shaft is hollow, so you can insert your dick in it to penetrate your man. This is great for long sex sessions since you can go on and on even if you start to lose your erection. Besides, the most impressive feature is the vibration system, which makes each session even more pleasurable.

If this didn't impress you that much, think that you can perform a double penetration without needing another guy.

 Titus Silicone Series Pup Tail

15) Titus Silicone Series Pup Tail

Are you into pup play? Then you need to try this gorgeous butt plug from the Titus range!

This silicone-made toy is perfect for this kinky fun role play. Besides, the beefy ribs around the base will grind against the sensitive area inside your anus, giving you tingling sensations every time you wave your tail.

 b-Vibe Snug Plug 3

16) b-Vibe Snug Plug 3

The Snug Plugs are weighted butt plugs that will make you feel like you have the real thing filling your ass. Six different versions of this toy go from very small to really huge, being number 3 kind of the intermediate one.

Number 5 and 6 are only for anal pros; number six has the same girth as a grown man's forearm.

 Oxballs Z Balls Ball Stretcher

17) Oxballs Z Balls Ball Stretcher

A cock ring can help your erection last longer but add a ball stretcher, and you're in for a long night of rough sex. 

This sex toy is both a cock ring and a ball stretcher; it will squeeze your shaft and stretch your balls away from you. This is two for one, so it's a great offer if you think about it.

 Rouge Leather Flogger w/Wooden Handle

18) Rouge Leather Flogger w/Wooden Handle

There's something about BDSM that makes us feel powerful and horny at the same time. If you're into this, you need to get yourself a flogger.

This flogger by Rouge is beautifully crafted out of wood and genuine leather; combine it with other kinky tools like restraining handcuffs, and you're set.

Keep in mind that you can really hurt somebody if you don't know how to use this well, so if you don't, better use it just for intimidation.

 Hunky Junk Lockdown Chastity

19) Hunky Junk Lockdown Chastity

There is a massive community of guys who are into using chastity devices. If you want to try it, you should start with this flexible cage that will restrain your family jewels without hurting you too much. You can even wear it for the whole day and do mundane activities.

This will help you get familiar with the sensation of the restriction of your parts, and you'll start becoming a good little sub.

 Jr. Double Header - Double Ended Dildo

20) Double Header - Double Ended Dildo

Picture this: You met a hot guy, he told you he's vers, and you say you're vers too, so you go to your place and find out you're actually both bottoms. 

What do you do?

You take out your double-ended dildo and enjoy the night like champions. This toy can be enjoyed alone or with a partner, so it's maybe even more versatile than you.

sex toys have a sexual orientation

Do sex toys have a sexual orientation?

Even though some sex toys might be made with queer men in mind, their primary purpose is to pleasure the male body: penis, balls, ass, and prostate. So, it doesn't matter which section of the LGBTQ+ community you're part of, or even if you're straight if they feel good for your body, let yourself enjoy your toys.

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