Sex is great and all and so is playing by yourself. But sometimes both can become, not necessarily boring but repetitive. So, it can be nice to mix things up a little, after all variety is the spice of life. So how about having fun with toys while with your partner? We have looked at lots of different ways of having fun, recent articles being about BDSM, Grindr Safety and what are the best masturbators out there. Now we are going to look at combining some of these for couple fun while also looking at new options for you kinky lads out there!
Fleshlights
Fleshlights and along with masturbating/handjobs in general, is usually best left for when you are on your own, we tend to know our best ways of getting our cocks spurting. But us gay/bisexual guys are a little different from our straight counterparts. We all know how it feels to hold a cock in our hands from a young age. And even the biggest female nympho will not be able to hold a candle against most guys and it’s why the meme that floats around the internet that the best handjob a woman can give is a blowjob. But gay and bisexual guys are different as we know what usually works when stroking a dick. So, this is where we are starting off.
1. Quickshot
This is a short Fleshlight that is transparent. You may be wondering why we’re talking about this particular Fleshlight if it’s so short (the canal is about 3.5 inches). But what makes this Fleshlight a little different are two things. First is that it is clear and so you can see everything that is happening. Which less face it, is a turn on. The second and most important note is that the quickshot is open on both ends. Not only does this mean that you can fuck either end but is also means you can have your partner suck you off while you are stroking off. Having the toy being clear also means your partner can see you as well, with you also seeing him. Of course, we have some fantastic lube for you to use. We have mentioned specific lubes in our masturbating blogs and adding extra flavor to your cock, which can just add to the overall experience. And if you are into kinky public sex, then this is also a great toy to have as it’s so easy to carry around. You can have fun around the clock!
Next, we are going to look at something a little more upmarket. We are looking at remote toys. These are fantastic for couples who are away from each other for any length of time. When I was 3500 miles away from my own partner, this really helped to keep the spice going. I am of course talking about Kiiroo. For those of you who don’t know, Kiiroo is a brand under Fleshlight that is great for that luxurious masturbation experience. They are also pioneering, in developing remote and electronic toys for your pleasure.
2. Kiiroo Onyx Interactive Masturbator
With the advance of VR in everyday life, it wasn’t long before the demand for VR in sex to come about. The Kiiroo Onyx Interactive Masturbator is the answer for that cry. With a sleek and modern design, it is not only great on your cock but also easy on the eyes. With a matte black exterior and a stylish red ring, this toy not only feels good but looks good. There is a sleek and elegant black cap to go with it as well, to keep people from guessing what it is as you bring it around.
Of course, it can be as pretty as it wants but if it doesn’t feel good, it’s not worth it. But the Kiiroo has that covered as well. With its patented pleasure core, it will bring you to cloud 9. This is where it uses contracting rings, stimulated by touch, to gloriously mimic the feeling of deep penetration. To compliment this, there are two air shafts that pump air in and out to help create that feeling of suction.
Even though it has many modern elements to it, this is still a product of Fleshlight. This means that the sleeve that is inside of the toy is of the highest quality and is as easy to remove and clean as other Fleshlight toys. Time has been taken to make sure that the sleeve has the exquisite detail of the tightest asses to make your eyes roll back and pant like a dog in heat.
One of the best things about the Kiiroo Onyx Interactive Masturbator is that it’s fully automated. Stick it on your shaft and ride your way to nirvana. Of course, today we are looking at couple’s toys, so how does the Kiiroo Onyx hold up in that category? Surprisingly well.
One other function of the Kiiroo Onyx is to pair up with another. So, while you are getting pleasured by your Onyx, your man can be too by his Onyx. This can be perfect for those versatile couples who both like to top as it takes off the edge enough for you to enjoy bottoming before topping your man later on. Of course, there’s no reason why you couldn't both get off with your toys and go for a second more laid back round.
Prostate Massagers
We’ve talked about how to get our cocks wet and satisfied. But what about our asses? Us bottoms and versatile people know that half of the fun is getting the party going in the back. So now we are going to look at prostate massagers. Keeping in theme with our masturbators, we are looking for toys that are a little more experimental in use and great for couples.
3. Alpha Pro 7x P-Stroke Prostate Stimulator
Let’s start off with a bang. This is a fantastic toy because of several reasons, the main being that you don’t have to do any work. Prostate orgasms are wonderful but can be a lot of work to get there and so sometimes are not worth it. With this toy, you can sit back and relax and let it massage your prostate for you. What’s more is that this is a dual vibrator, with one in the base and another in the shaft. The shaft goes up your ass and massages that sweet spot while the base rest just in behind your balls, vibrating the base of your cock. To add some variety to the mix, there are seven setting for you to find what’s best for you.
The P-Stroke is rechargeable, making sure you never have to worry about batteries dying mid-session. To compliment that, this P-Stroke is waterproof, making washing your body in a shower or a bath even better! Just to be aware that this P-Stroke should not be used with silicone products or lube as this can degrade it.
To make it even more exciting, (and easier), there is a remote control for you to make it easier for you to adjust the settings. Obviously if there is a remote control there is always the possibility of someone else setting it for you… Enjoy!
Sometimes you need to get fucked. It’s a feeling that has been building up over the coming days or weeks but for whatever reason you haven’t acted on it. Suddenly it reaches a point where you absolutely need to have your ass stretched or your prostate massaged. It is a must. It is vital. But your man has had a long day and is just not really feeling it. So here we have an answer for you.
4. Jaxx Hammer 2.0 Rechargeable Sex Machine
Meet the Jaxx Hammer, the big black cock you never knew you needed. With a girthy realistic design, this is a great addition to any toy collection. We have talked about it before, briefly when looking at dildos. However, what makes it better than your standard run of the mill sex toys is how it is mounted on a thruster and has the ability to vibrate. With four vibrating settings, this toy can offer the versatility that another traditional toy simply cannot. The thruster has three thrusting speeds to really itch that itch inside your hole. The thruster can be used one of two ways, one a suction cup and situated in a place of your choosing or removing the suction cup and holding it with your hands.
Naturally it would be a bit of a chore to hold the Jaxx Hammer for so long, giving your man a second chance to redeem himself and angle it just right in your ass. As this is a rechargeable toy with no wires, this is a great toy for both of you to enjoy. And who knows, maybe when your man sees you enjoying yourself so much, he will want to join in. Stranger things have happened!
