Gay men are interesting sexual beings. We love sex and it is a vital part of any relationship, whether a hookup or a committed partnership. Sex is so important to some queer couples, that they have opened up their relationships to allow for extraneous partners to fulfill their insatiable sexual appetites—and stay together as partners. Sex is considered one of the most intricate aspects of being a gay man. After all, we are all biologically designed to spread our seed across the planet.
When it comes to sex, not everyone is necessarily treated equally. While some of us gay men are power fuckers that can go on and on and last for hours and hours, there are those of us with a—let’s just say—less drive than others. Whether you are a sexual stallion machine that can fuck and fuck and fuck, or you are someone that enjoys sexual intercourse once a week, there will always be a situation where you might need an extra hand keeping it up and staying hard.
Sure, there are lots drugs that can help your penis stay as hard as college calculus. Marijuana can also be an aid that helps you stay horny. Viagra and Ciallys are the wonder blue pills that will allow you to sustain an erection until the next presidential election. But not everyone wants to pop a pharmaceutical every time they want to enjoy some gay nooky. So, what is a girl to do? How can we keep up with our boners in the bedroom like we are all 19 years old again
Fortunately for you and me, there is a simple solution to your flaccid penis woes. Thank the dear lord jeebus for whomever invented the cock ring! This simple, little circular device around the base of your dick mightn’t look like much, but it one of your best allies for staying hard through out any longer gay sex experience.
Cock rings can come in many different shapes and all kinds of styles and materials. The point remains the same: they all help your dick stay hard. But you can find cock rings in as many materials as silicone, metal, rubber, elastic, and leather. Styles can rang from small, thing plastic rubber circles to cocks with appendages to stimulate the chode and asshole.
No matter what kind of style or shape you’re in the mood to try, your local sex shop and Adam’s Toy Box have you covered in the cock ring department.
The easiest way to slide into a cock ring is when your dick is not hard...
So, plan ahead. During the foreplay process or before fooling around, take your five fingers and put them through the ring. Spread out your digits to widen the cock ring. Then, slide the circle of the cock ring up over your dick head and down the shaft of your penis. When the ring is at the base, use your fingers to again spread out the ring to loop over and lasso your ball sack, too. The ring should rest around your penis and sack, squeezing it slightly and constricting it. If you are using solid cock rings that don’t have any give or bend, slide it over your package when you are completely soft.
It’s super common to use a cock ring during gay sex. Hard dicks are hot, but our anatomy doesn’t always do what our brains and libidos want us to do. That cock ring will enable you to stay hard the entire sex session. Nothing sexier than a rock-hard hard-on.
Removal of the cock ring after gay sex should happen only when the penis is no longer erect. It can be quite painful and a tight squeeze to remove the cock ring while your cock is still engorged with blood. Do your little man and yourself a favor and give it a few minutes after orgasm to begin the removal process of the cock ring. Be careful and gentle with the placing and removal of the cock ring before and after gay sex. It isn’t a race, so there is no need to slap it on yourself quickly and risk injury.
Cock rings should be used sporadically and not all the time...
Our penises fill with blood to give us our erections. Cock rings work by constricting the blood vessels supplying the shaft of your dick with blood. Eventually, this can cause bruising and crushing of these arteries, and can potentially lead to unwanted long term effects like erectile function. So, while cock rings are hot and help guys stay hard during butt sex, it isn’t recommended to use them on the daily.
Use a cock ring next time you have sex to enhance your experience. A little bit of constriction can lead to a lot more time in the bedroom. Unfortunately, not all cock rings were created equally, so we have provided you with some of the best cock rings on the market.
Check out some highly recommended cock rings:
1. The Oxballs Unit X Stretch Cocksling
The Oxballs Unit X Stretch Cocksling, $19.99, is everything you could want in a cock ring and more, at a great price. Actually considered more of a ball stretcher, The Oxballs Unit X Stretch Cocksling separately your testicles from your package in an erotic position. Available in 3 snazzy colors, red, black, and clear, you’ll get new sex sensations with this seamless, smooth cock sling cock ring. The folks at Atomic Jock made this Oxballs cock ring very stretchy and flexible, so slipping it onto your penis and your nuts through the other end is like a breeze. Made of a stretchy TPR blend, the Oxballs Unit X is a new and improved version of their best selling cock stretcher. Body safe and phthalate-free.
2. The Sling Ring by Sport Fucker
The Sling Ring by Sport Fucker, $14.99. This little guy may look like a miniature slinky for your penis, but the Sport Fucker Sling Ring is a top quality cock ring with a simple, yet highly effective design. With just a little bit of extra width to pride the wearer with a bit of ball stretching, this cock ring is designed with extra room and a contour for the shaft of your penis. The Sport Fucker Sling Ring provides just enough of a stretch to accommodate really well-endowed guys, but is taut enough that any guys fits all. Made from TPR and available in black or red, the Sport Fucker Sling Ring is comfortable, light and give your junk enough of a squeeze to make it count.
Three cock rings for the price of one? Now we are talking! Like Goldilocks looking for the perfect bed and porridge, you can be goldicocks with three different cock rings to choose from with the Perfect Fit Xact Fit 3 Ring Kit, $16.85. Depending upon the level to which you want to intensify your sex play and constrict your penis, you get to choose which of the three sizes you want to enjoy for the night. Choose between a 14 mm, 17 mm, or 20 mm size (or why not all three at once?) for whichever your desired level of constriction on your dick shaft might be. Made of silicone, these cockering are completely washable and meant to be used with water-based lube. If you are new to the cock ring world, the Perfect Fit Xact Fit 3 Ring Kit is a great place to begin a new collection.
3. Cocksling 2
Oxballs knows and produces excellent sex toys and products, and they really hit it out of the park with best-seller the Cocksling 2, $21.99. TPR is the material that keeps giving, with a body safe pliability given to this cock ring to maximize comfort and wearability. The Oxballs Cocksling 2 does what it says on the tin and gives your balls a perfect little stretch and separation for enhanced stimulation. There is a contour built into the interior ring of the Cocksling 2, allowing the wearer to have space for their erect penises to cum and piss while wearing the ring. It’s so soft, you’ll hardly even know you’re wearing a cock ring / ball stretcher in the first place.
4. Turbo Cock Ring from Porn Hub
Maybe you want a cock ring with a little more juice than your normal cock ring. Looking for an additional thrill with your penis constrictor? Check out the Turbo Cock Ring from Porn Hub. Everyone knows Porn Hub as one of the biggest online sources for pornography and adult film work. But Porn Hub has a great collection of sex toys and aids, too, including this gorgeous cock ring. The Turbo Cock Ring is actually a vibrating cock ring that is 100% waterproof. So, you can wear it anywhere, and feel the orgasmic vibrating sensations of 6 different vibration settings. Made from 100% phthalate-free, body safe silicone, the Porn Hub Turbo Cock Ring is designed with a contoured tip, made for your comfort and silicone that moulds to your body. This cock ring is USB rechargeable.
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Actually this isn’t a comment but a question. I have ED. I hate Viagra and it’s the only medical help I can get free, 5 monthly. Medicare doesn’t cover these drugs. I also have a small cock. What I’m mainly interested in is some kind of vibrator that I can insert my cock in as opposed to those I see that men with hard cocks use externally running it up and down the shaft. I used to be able to achieve orgasm with my flaccid cock but I admit, I was using substances that made you very horny. I no longer use and I’m getting very frustrated because it takes forever to cum. If it was hard that would be great.
Any suggestions?