How to Eat a Man's Ass: Rimjob Tips and Tricks

How to Eat a Man's Ass: Rimjob Tips and Tricks

A "rimjob," also known as "rimming," may sound like a kind of esthetic procedure or a nifty trick to do on a skateboard. Still, it's actually something that'll give you even more joy: eating out someone's ass. Here we'll tell you why you should try this if you haven't, and how you can do it better.

You may have heard about a rimjob, but do you know what that is? Rimming, also known as anilingus (fancy, I know), is a sexual activity that involves giving pleasure to someone by stimulating their asshole, asscheeks, and anal opening by using our tongue, lips, or teeth.

When doing a rim job, you may:

  • Suck
  • Lick
  • Taste
  • Tongue-fuck
  • Flick
  • Suction

Do any other pleasure-inducing activity to make your man moan in ecstasy.

 4 Reasons Why You Should Try Rim Jobs

4 Reasons Why You Should Try Rim Jobs

Eating ass or getting your ass eaten by another man is something the most conservative folk may find kinky, weird, or even nasty. Still, it's pretty fun, and many people are into it.

Are people into eating ass these days? I know, scandalous. I'm being sarcastic here, as anyone with a mouth can be into eating ass, and anyone with an ass can be into sitting on someone's face, and that's basically everyone.

Eating ass is very common within the gay community. You may think only bottoms get their ass eaten, but that's also a misconception. Yes, bottoms may get their asses eaten out more because it is a fun and practical way to help them get relaxed, hot, and bothered, and ready to get a finger, sex toy, or penis inserted in their assholes. However, even if you don't enjoy being penetrated, getting your ass eaten can be a mind-blowing experience because of the sensations it provides to your whole body.

Here's a list of reasons why you should try rimming:

1) It feels fantastic. Period.

First things first, you need to try getting your ass eaten by another man because of how great it feels. The entrance of the anus has the same number of nerve endings as the tip of a penis (4,000). So, this s an extremely sensitive erogenous zone that can send incredible charges of pleasure through your body when it's in contact with the moist tongue, soft lips, or thick beard of a man. Whenever I think about getting my ass eaten by my man, I immediately have shivers down my spine, and my knees turn to butter.

2) It is a great way to prepare for anal sex

When you're eating someone's ass, you can use your tongue to perform penetrative movements on the opening of the anus (also known as tonguing or tongue-fucking). This can coax the anus to relax and make anal penetration more enjoyable.

The tongue is smaller, softer, and moister than a dick or finger. It can stimulate the nerves of the anal canal without making it too invasive. So, it feels great and helps beginners be ready to be penetrated by something more significant in a more fun and pleasurable way. Even if you're not a beginner, getting your ass eaten before being penetrated should be something you demand!

On the other hand, if you're a top, and you're about to put your dick up your man's asshole, the least you can do is pamper it with your mouth, lips, and tongue. If you love that ass of him, then sink your face between those cheeks and enjoy every bit of the cake. It's killing two birds with one stone, as to make anal sex better, foreplay is mandatory.

 Rimming can be psychologically thrilling

3) It can be psychologically thrilling

Eating ass can be seen as a kinky act, and kinky is hot. Rimming is taboo for many people, and for that reason, it can feel like you're doing something forbidden and add more excitement and adrenaline to this activity.

I remember the first time I got my ass eaten by a guy. We were hooking up in my college dorm. He was sucking my dick and balls, then he decided to go further and lifted my legs to get a clear view of my ass, which he proceeded to lick like an apple tart.

I had seen ass-eating in porn, and I thought it was kinky and exciting, so I felt naughty and bold when it happened to me. There's something enormously manly and raw about eating a man's ass.

4) It is an act of trust

A man's asshole is arguably the most private part of his body. So, you need to really trust someone to let him touch your anus even more if you let him lick it. Suppose you know how communication and trust are crucial elements of a powerful sex encounter. In that case, you know, being able to trust someone so much to let yourself be truly vulnerable in front of him is intensely hot.

 7 Tips to Eat Ass Like a Pro

7 Tips to Eat Ass Like a Pro

Whether you're new to it or have done it before a couple times, you can benefit from learning about it since no one teaches us how to eat ass. Sex education doesn't include oral sex, nor anal sex. Since rimming is oral-anal sex, there's little you can learn about this practice from books.

Here we'll give you some tips to introduce yourself face-first (pun intended) into rimming and get to do it like a pro.

1) Talk to your partner about it.

If you want to introduce rimming into your sexual activities, you need to first talk about it with your partner. You can't just turn somebody over and start licking his ass, and you obviously should not put your bare ass on somebody's face without previous warning. You need to talk about it and make sure your partner is into it.

Even if he's not your official special one, and he's just a hookup, it is essential that if you have this idea on your mind, you let him know so you're sure he wants to do it too; you know #consentishot

You can do it naturally, and that doesn't make him feel pressured into doing it:

  • Ask him if he has ever done it and, if not if he would.
  • Tell him that you love to give him pleasure by sucking his dick... maybe you could pleasure him the same by eating his ass.
  • Tell him you think it could be very hot and fun for you both.
  • Next time he compliments your butt, ask him if he would eat it.
  • Tell him you read an article about anilingus, and it sounded very pleasurable. Send him the link to this article if he wants to read about it too.

2) Discuss the logistics with your partner.

If you know he's into it, and you're into it too, then it's game on, right? Actually, there's a little more talking to do unless you want to live an awkward moment when you both lay down ready to get your asses eaten, but there's no one to eat you out.

You guys must have clear who's into eating ass, who's into getting his ass eaten, and who's into both before you go into it. Maybe you both want to play the same role, and in that case, one of you will have to compromise. You both can always compromise and try a 69 where you both eat your asses simultaneously; doesn't it sound romantic?

This is a perfect moment to define some other logistics involving hygiene. Maybe you want to do it right after you take a shower, or perhaps you want to do it in the shower. Maybe you're kinky and into sweaty assholes and want your man to sit on your face right after going to the gym. Define the logistics and cleaning protocols beforehand to avoid awkward moments.

 Get all the things you need for rimming gay ass

3) Get all the things you need.

If it's your first time, maybe you'll want to use a dental dam, which you need to decide with your partner. Placing your face in someone's buttcheeks or having someone's asshole on your mouth can be nerve-wracking if you're a bit of a germophobic. So, maybe you want to put something in between ass and mouth but still enjoy the experience.

A dental dam can help you with this and flavored lube to enjoy that ass like candy. However, you need to get said items before going into the bedroom and deciding it's the time for rimming. Preparation is vital; remember that.

4) Enjoy the ride, and don't rush things.

Yes, we get you're excited, and you want to go straight to it, but the best way to enjoy it is to not rush it at all. Start by getting into the mood with kisses, dancing, a sensual massage, chest stimulation, or sex toys, whatever floats your boat and makes you ready for a rim job.

Once you're at it, be bold and try different things, you'll see what your partner likes by his reaction, but you can also ask if he's enjoying what you're doing. Maybe he likes your flat tongue making circles around his hole, or maybe he prefers when you dart your tongue into his ass. Try different techniques, rhythms, and positions to find what feels better for him and you.

Gay Sex Consent and Affirmation

5) Open your mouth... to talk

Consent is sexy, you know, and its affirmation is also hot. If you're the one getting your ass eaten, let him know you're enjoying it. Let him know what you prefer and invite him to try certain things. He'll appreciate knowing he's doing a good job.

On the other hand, if you're the one eating that ass, let your man know how much you enjoy it too. Compliment the shape, size, strength, and feel of your partner's butt. While you're eating his ass, tell him you like his taste, tell him how turned on you are, and how beautiful he looks while you eat him up.

6) Aftercare is a must.

Getting your ass eaten makes you feel vulnerable and exposed, so if you're the one performing the rim job, make your partner feel pampered after all the ass-eating is done.

Ask your man how he's feeling; ask him if he wants to eat or drink something, cuddle, or do anything he needs to feel at ease after the rim job.

7) Check in with him afterward.

Even if, as we said before, anyone could be into rimming, this is a sexual practice that causes a lot of division: So... you're into it, or you hate the idea of it.

A day or so before you did it, you can touch base with your man to see how his experience was. You can say that you had fun, and ask if he liked it too. You can ask him if he's open to doing it ever again and assure him that the experience was fantastic for you.

 Rimjob Tips and Tricks

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