Gender Fluid They/Them Candle
Gender Fluid They/Them Candle
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Pronouns on the label, vanilla in the air
A they/them candle: a 4 oz vanilla bean scented candle in a black tin with a rainbow THEY/THEM label. It's a room candle for the shelf or nightstand, not a massage candle, so the wax stays in the tin and off his skin.
Best forGifting the they/them friend in your circle, or scenting the bedroom before he comes over.
Pride flag hung, sheets changed, and his text says forty minutes. You light the vanilla on the nightstand and finally sit down, the room smelling like a man who has his life together. The only thing still in the closet is the laundry.
- Vanilla bean: warm, sweet and easy to live with
- Rainbow THEY/THEM label on a matte black tin, with a lid to keep the scent in between burns
- A room candle only: the wax isn't made for skin, so it scents the room while the massage oil goes on his back
- Small 4 oz size that fits a nightstand, a bathroom shelf or a gift bag
They/them candle size
One size: a 4 oz round candle in a lidded tin. If you want wax that melts into oil for his back and ass cheeks, that's a massage candle; ask Adam in the chat.
How to use a they/them candle
- Set it on the nightstand or a shelf and light the wick.
- Let it burn while you get ready or while he's over. Don't pour the wax: it's not for skin.
- Blow it out and put the lid back on to keep the vanilla in.
Care
Put the lid back on between burns to keep the scent in.

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