I think quite a few of you reading this can enthusiastically say you love dick. You love taking your man all the way down your throat and you don’t shy away from his morning wood! But have you spent time seriously worshiping his cock?
Cock worship isn’t about those rushed blowjobs before work, or sloppy head after a night out drinking. Worshiping a cock is a show of appreciation for your partner’s dick and all the good things it brings you. It can be an amazing way to spice up a slump in the bedroom or add to your already full sex life!
Never heard of it before? Well, you gon learn ta-day, sis! Cock worship, at a basic level, is about giving his man-meat more than your full attention, it’s about celebrating every inch, vein, curve, and swerve. You can even use it to establish stronger dom-sub vibes as a way to explore BDSM if you’re just getting curious about that. It can also be a fantastic surprise gift from you to him as a reward after a big project wraps up.
One thing is for sure, with this Gay Guy’s Guide to Cock Worship, at least one of you will want this to be a regular thing!
Let me explain...
You don’t have to look at cock worship from a dom-sub relationship, maybe you’re even usually the top. It’s really about redefining expectations around what oral sex can be. Don’t get all caught up in the idea that this could be a long and tiring blowjob from hell... because it should really be an enjoyable experience for you both.
It should involve things that you’re both into, maybe you can’t deep throat due to an overactive gag reflex (sorry for you), but there’s more to it than just shoving his member in your mouth. You can use oils or lube to massage all around his cock to increase arousal or play with his hole if he’s into that!
Cock worship can be a spiritual and fulfilling experience that you’ll crave again and again, whether or not you’re on the receiving end. After all, this is about empowering your connection with your partner and treating him just the way he likes. And, like with anything sexual, communication is key.
Your place of worship is really up to you! Laying in bed or on the sofa might be the most comfortable for him, but if you’re doing all the work, make sure you’re comfortable, too. Just because it’s about worshiping his cock, doesn’t mean you can’t do things to yourself that get you going!
Where to start
You’ll want to start off with a bit of a research phase. Now, this isn’t nearly as technical as it sounds, but no one is stopping you from keeping a spreadsheet of dick data! This stage is
really about understanding what your man does or doesn’t like done to his special friend. If you’ve been together a while, you might know some of his favourite pleasures already, but have you ever asked how he likes his dick worshiped?
If you did, you’ve got a great starting point, but let’s dive a little deeper for the rest of you! You can ask how he likes his balls played with, maybe they’re too tight and sensitive and he likes a gentle rub versus a firm pull. You won’t know unless you ask! Heck, you could find out you’ve been doing him dirty this whole time by neglecting his balls altogether because you’re a cock hungry guy who just loves his shaft buried balls deep down your throat.
Don’t be afraid to think outside the cock-zone! Maybe he likes getting rimmed and stroked at the same time. Compliments could be his thing, and so could sensual touch. Nothing is off-limits - well unless you talk about things that might be a no-go for either of you. It can come (no pun intended) in time too because if you’re both new to cock worship, neither of you might know what to ask or even answer with.
This is a really great time to explore kinks that you or he may have been holding back on. Maybe it’s time to get a blindfold or buy some toys specifically for your cock worship adventure together. Has he tried a penis pump before? Or had a partner used a masturbator toy on him while he was tied up? There are endless things that could come up while you’re preparing for your first cock worship session. An easy place to start might just be his favourite cock ring to keep him rock-hard throughout the worship.
Now, you don’t have to tie him to a chair or anything that wild, but the point is, you can if that’s what could work for you! It’s really about gathering the details, the little things that you can really spend time on when you’re worshiping his cock.
It’s time to plan
Now that you know what your partner is looking for out of this, it’s time to set the atmosphere! Clear away potential distractions from the place you plan to worship his cock. Time to get rid of that pile of laundry on the bedroom chair or switch to those sheets that he just loves. Whether it’s going to be in the bedroom or in your sex dungeon, free the space of anything that might cause an unwanted distraction from the acts you’re about to partake in.
This really shouldn’t be a ten-minute sprint to climax, so make sure you both have time in your schedule to spend as much time as you can or want to for exploring this fantasy. If he already lasts a long time it’s probably a good idea to anticipate that this will be a very long session! So it’s probably not ideal before his first day at the new job, but maybe after a long week of work, you can relax and unwind with him in this extra special way.
If you think things through now, you give yourselves both the time to enjoy everything that this experience will have to offer you both.
Invite only
Now that you're ready, the mood is set, maybe you’ve got on his favourite cologne wearing only the jockstrap that drives him wild or maybe you’re both fully dressed after work. Either way, invite him into the space you’ve prepared to worship his cock. You could be forceful and demanding, or cheeky and coy, whatever works for you two.
This could be a new experience all around, so let him adjust to his surroundings first. Let him explore any of the toys you’ve prepared, and when he’s ready you can start by rubbing his thighs or teasing his cock with your tongue. Remember, this is about experiencing every moment together and not rushing to completion.
Whether he’s starting soft or hard shouldn’t deter you, after all, it’s a new experience, right? Give him time to warm up to everything that’s happening, maybe give him a strip tease or help him undress. If you’re into it, now would be a great time to put that blindfold on so all that’s left for him is to enjoy everything you do to him.
Forgive me daddy for I love cock...
Here’s where things can get spicy! By now, your man is probably rock-hard with anticipation. Let him tell you what to do if he likes being in control, or gag him so all you can hear are his moans of pleasure. You can kiss his neck or tease his nipples, do everything that turns him on the most, but the centre of it all will be his cock.
Leave him to throb in your hand as you rim him or massage his taint, but remember to sprinkle in the things you’ve found out that he likes. Spend dedicated time doing each of those things and you’re sure to have a very happy cock in front of you. If you’ve got more free reign to do as you please, then it might be good to break out the massage oil and sensually rub him down while you tease his member.
This is all about showing your love for his cock, and the man attached to it. You’ll drive him wild from start to finish, but it doesn’t have to be a crazy rollercoaster. If you keep your focus on his cock, you can still make him experience an explosive orgasm.
Glorious dick
Compliment his cock, whether he’s hung like a horse, or has the perfect head, tailor it to him. Maybe he’s insecure about something, this is the perfect time to tell him those things turn you on. I would shy away from the cheesy, mundane lines like “You’re so big!” and get creative like “I love it when I can feel this vein inside me” or “Your precum tastes so good!”
This can really help break the ice if it starts out a little awkward or it can make it even more spectacular if it’s already been going great! The most important thing is to be 100% genuine, if he’s already insecure, some of the compliments might make him feel weird. So it’s important to take this chance to really boost his ego.
You want him to walk away from this experience thinking he’s got the most glorious dick on the planet and a cock slave who wants to worship it until the end of time! After a couple of these worship sessions, I’m sure he’ll be more confident than ever before, and you’re sure to take pleasure in knowing what caused it.
Slow strokes
I’ve already mentioned that this isn’t a sprint, cock worship is a marathon of pleasure. Use lots of lubes and slow strokes to really tease his cock. You’re not jerking him off, though, you’re exploring every inch of his man meat and finding more spots that he might not know he loves.
As you discover some of his erogenous zones, don’t be afraid to explore them further. Maybe you can make him moan and ooze precum by just kissing his shaft. Don’t tire yourself out thinking you have to give an Olympic-level blowjob or something. Cock worship is slow and sensual, it’s meant to be a lasting experience.
Take time to work every inch of his cock, and crotch too! Spread his thighs and then squeeze them around your head as you lick his balls. Really, there’s as much to do as you see fit! Don’t forget that you are trying to keep him as aroused as possible, it’s just that the focus remains on his cock. Why not stroke your cocks together or let him lick up your precum, whatever will turn him on.
That’s the spot
I’ve kind of been insinuating this, but don’t be shy about taking his cock in your mouth - or as much of it as you can. You’re here to worship that cock, after all, so look him in the eyes and suck his head. Lick the base of his cock while you gently rub his glans. I keep saying this, but the possibilities are endless!
Find the spots that he likes the most and spend extra time there so he knows this experience is all about his pleasure and his cock. He might even get a kick out of watching you play with yourself, toys or no toys, maybe he just likes watching his man pleasure himself.
Ask him if there’s anything he’d like you to do, ‘cause now that you’re well into your first cock worship session, maybe he’s got more ideas (or the confidence to ask) now that you’ve explored a little. He might even just get you to go back and repeat something he really liked from earlier on.
Happy ending
Now, some men might cum at any point during their first cock worship session, but if you’ve both made it this far, it’s time to make the climb to his climax. Alternatively, you can swap and have him work your cock over - this is actually a great way to prevent a premature ending if he’s getting a little too riled up.
You guys don’t have to cum now either, this can be a great build-up for a more explosive orgasm later. You can also forgo the cock play now and switch to something more... penetrative! If you two enjoyed it, now’s a good time to start planning the next session!
It’s important to make sure you talk about the things that did or didn’t work for either of you. Maybe no toys next time, or maybe more toys, maybe he’d like to try stepping the bondage up more and be fully restrained the next time you worship his cock. After your first, you always get more creative!
Talk about how you’d like to finish next time, maybe he wants you to ride him to completion next time or blast his load to see how much you make him cum. No judgment here! Like with any other form of worship, you should be worshiping his cock regularly! So make it a thing you guys do every weekend or save it for really special occasions, either way, I’m sure you’ll have a happy ending ;)
